Many things have happened in my life that appeared to be negative but now I see that they were necessary for my life’s tapestry. They were less than what I deserved. The cut was not tailor made for me. The texture didn’t flow with my movements. The color didn’t suit me and the length was out of proportion and unflattering.
As negative as this sounds, these happenings painted my present with glorious possibilities and I see my future filled with luminous, delicious color. I am grateful I experienced every moment.
Remember this…You cannot drive forward looking in the rear view mirror. If you do, you can miss your exit to destiny. Yes, there are times when looking back can help us, but we must accompany our looking back with wisdom. When we glance into our past, we cannot have regrets about what we believed we missed. If we missed it, it was probably not something we needed in our lives. Our “coulda, shoulda, woulda” blues cannot help us navigate our future and walk in destiny.
Hindsight is 20/20 when we use the information to produce wisdom. So, handle your business because destiny awaits you!
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If you are to be a wise ruler, you must understand one of the fundamental principles of reigning. You must accept the real and authentic you and all the beauty and power that comes with it. Authenticity, although an asset, is not easily won. Mines set to sabotage you from wholeness fill Life’s battle ground and there are times when you must fight to collaborate this elusive ally.
The best way to win this battle is to understand the power of self control and self acceptance. When you understand and embrace who you are, focus becomes an integral part of your landscape. It invites Authenticity to hold you in his arms and guide to you a place called Queendom. It then becomes easier to guard your borders and to “rule yourself” without excuse. And that my sister…is a great place to be!
The first ruling principle from the book, The Conduct of Queens is understanding who you are and learning to accept that awesome woman called you. When you don’t accept who you are, that insecure behavior will show up in EVERYTHING else that you do. It will show up even if you try to control it. It will come out in your language; in your actions and even in your attitude. The harder you try, the more it will show up! It will spill over into every area of your life…without your permission!
If you’re not comfortable in your own skin, you will take your insecurity out on other Queens. And when you do, other Queens will see this as a declaration of war!!!
So, it’s time to discover your identity and embrace it!
#theconductofqueens #drgailhayesspeak – ©2
“The most powerful people are those who understand that they are here to not only live well but to also serve others. Your talents mean NOTHING without service. Your time means NOTHING without service. Your words mean NOTHING without service. Your presence means NOTHING if you are unwilling to serve. So in your success, remember to light the way and serve because then your service means SOMETHING!” #drgspeaks #handleyourbusinessgirl
Many of the greatest people in history stood on foundations forged with service. They put the needs of others before their own. They gave of their time, sustenance, gifts, and talents. They understood what has escaped those caught in mediocrity’s grasp. They discovered a need and dedicated most their lives to meeting a need that served others.
They not only met needs but they also created something that most of us desire. Through their service, they created legacy. When you create legacy, you step into something amazing. You create exponential illumination that ignites destiny’s power!